Say what u need to say..

“Have no fear for givin' in.

Have no fear for giving over.

You better know that in the end

It's better to say too much, than never to say what you need to say again.
Say what you need to say
Say what you need to say
Say what you need to say”
- John Mayer

How many times do we stop ourselves from saying the truth with the fear that it may hurt the opposite person? How many times do we think that things are better left unsaid? A lot of times we come across situations wherein we want to open our hearts and speak our mind and then we stop and think. Why do you think this happens? What is it that we are afraid of? Rejection? Humiliation? Being made fun of or not being taken seriously enough?

These mental fears stop us from voicing our thoughts, our emotions, our inner thoughts and feelings. I agree with John Mayer’s words of advice – we should have no fear when it comes to voicing one’s thoughts and opinions. Whether it is getting closure in a broken relationship or trying to speak one's mind to one's parents one should try and speak out - get those thoughts out; out of the dungeons of the mind where it would only stay and trouble us more. Maybe the problem is not what you want to say, but how you say it, the tone you use to convey your thoughts, and also the state of mind of both individuals. It does take courage to speak one's mind, to be frank with people, but in today’s world if you are not frank to the people you care about then aren’t we all living in a fictitious world? So maybe its not bad advice to “Say what you need to say”…